I once have such a hypothesis: Life is a give and take game. Some might be able to obtain more of friends, pleasures, leisure and less of money, enjoyment, adventure or even life experience. While others can't have anything they really want in their whole life. It all depends on what your portfolio is. If you want to have more money in yours, may be you need to sacrifice some leisure or sometimes even your pride or esteem etc. to exchange for it.
Whatever it takes, everything has a price on it. If you feel your portfolio is not optimum to yourself, change it! Adjust it in such a way that you will have more that you like and less of what you dislike or sometimes you need to exchange away of something that you "like" on a temporary basis if this is the only choice you've got.
Always be cheerful and have hope in your portfolio. Do not change them for sadness, discourage and pessimistic.